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My name is Ariel Niu @niu.views. I share views and guidance on social dynamics through understanding our emotions, expressions, and energy. CONNECT: Book Coaching - https://shop.arielniuviews.com/products/coaching-with-energy-reading Website - https://beacons.ai/niu.views Instagram - www.instagram.com/niu.views TikTok - www.tiktok.com/@niu.views YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/c/NiuViews Business Inquiries - contact@arielniuviews.com Partnerships/Media - arielniu@viralnationtalent.com
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This is how you do it from the inside out.
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0:00 People-Pleasing vs Kindness
1:57 Genuine Compliments
3:19 Know Your Wants / Needs
4:04 Decisive / Definitive Communication
7:41 Sharp / Soft Dynamics
8:40 Body Language
9:37 Facial Expressions
10:20 Authenticity vs Strategy
11:05 More Resources
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ABOUT: My name is Ariel Niu. I share views and guidance on social dynamics and human interactions through understanding our emotions, expressions, and energy. I also share concepts on how everything and everyone is connected. Since 2018, I have been practicing using my own inner state to change outer experiences and people. I love creating content about human connections, and I am grateful and excited to help those who resonate with my messages.
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Saturday Apr 27, 2024
Why your BOUNDARIES aren't working
Saturday Apr 27, 2024
Saturday Apr 27, 2024
You are attached to nobody.
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Study Notes:
- TENSION with BOUNDARIES: When we are UNCLEAR/INSECURE about our own INTENTIONS.
- REACTIVENESS happens when we ATTACH our worth, needs, standards, liberation to others.
- To resolve CONFUSION: Go to the ROOT, re-plant your TRUE INTENTIONS.
- To resolve INSECURITY: KNOW and BE, not need, your standards and limits.
- Conflict with others happen when we have SUPERIORITY or INFERIORITY within.
- All expressions (Sharp, Soft, Playful) are okay when we practice EYE-LEVEL BALANCE.
0:00 Introduction
0:39 Tension with Boundaries
3:54 Superiority vs Inferiority
5:59 Imbalanced vs Balanced Boundaries
9:19 Inner Emotions
10:03 More Resources
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ABOUT: My name is Ariel Niu. I share views and guidance on social dynamics and human interactions through understanding our emotions, expressions, and energy. I also share concepts on how everything and everyone is connected. Since 2018, I have been practicing using my own inner state to change outer experiences and people. I love creating content about human connections, and I am grateful and excited to help those who resonate with my messages.
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Thursday Apr 18, 2024
How to be CHARISMATIC in Group Conversations
Thursday Apr 18, 2024
Thursday Apr 18, 2024
Confidence leans towards self - my presence, speech, delivery. Charisma leans towards others - flow, dynamics, engagement with others.
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Study Notes:
- INDIVIDUAL-GROUP FLOW: start a conversation with 1 individual in group (e.g. 'any upcoming trips planned Sarah?'), while having moments dropping questions and small statements to the rest of the group throughout (e.g. 'Honolulu? Amazing! Have you guys been?' 'Check out North Shore Sarah...guys, this place is beautiful. Sarah, I'll give you all the recommendations.')
- Mastery is seamless flow from talking to the individual, to group, back to individual while maintaining full presence and ease with everyone.
- QUESTIONS/PLAYFUL STATEMENTS: end your point/story with a question or a playful statement back to the group to reduce awkward silences.
- SIDE COMMENTS: if you don't want full spotlight but want to be involved, be fully present in the conversations and confidently add reassuring or cheeky comments to others' stories.
- UTILIZE SILENCE: instead of fearing or thinking about the silence, utilize it. Use silent moments to breathe and regulate, come back within yourself fully. This practice will allow new thoughts and flow to naturally arise.
0:00 Individual-Group Flow
2:02 Questions/Playful Statements
3:32 Reassuring/Cheeky Comments
7:19 Utilizing Silence
10:29 Confidence/Charisma Balance
11:26 More Resources
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ABOUT: My name is Ariel Niu. I share views and guidance on social dynamics and human interactions through understanding our emotions, expressions, and energy. I also share concepts on how everything and everyone is connected. Since 2018, I have been practicing using my own inner state to change outer experiences and people. I love creating content about human connections, and I am grateful and excited to help those who resonate with my messages.
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Tuesday Apr 09, 2024
How to deal with PRESENTATION NERVES
Tuesday Apr 09, 2024
Tuesday Apr 09, 2024
You are the presenter, and the initiator and alchemist of the energy in the room.
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*Study Notes*
- Break the fourth wall with the audience before the presentation (casual chitchat).
- Have a confident base that is sustainable - honed authenticity with nonchalance.
- Honed authenticity = 'being real with a secret' kind of energy.
- Nonchalance = I am aware of it all and it's always all good.
- It's ok to ask for context, we need context to give thorough, useful responses. E.g. 'Interesting, tell me more about x' 'I think what you are trying to say is this, am I following correctly?' 'Give me more details on this aspect'
- Approach unexpected questions with curiousity, see them as opportunities.
- Hone in on the individual asking the question, treat it like a conversation.
- Approach follow-ups with confidence and excitement if necessary. E.g. 'I'm excited to add this to my research, I'll have it as a point in our follow-up email.'
- Avoid inferiority (shame/victimizing) or superiority (masking confidence) with mistakes, I like to admit to it in the moment with nonchalance and get right back into it. E.g. 'Ok, I just made up that word, what I meant is this :)'
- Catch the initial anxiety, breathe and relax into lightness and nonchalance.
- Curiousity translates into confidence, which translates into the ability to connect the dots.
- It's within our control whether we approach unexpected moments with anxiety/shame/rigidness or curiousity/nonchalance/lightness, and that energy will be felt by all.
0:00 Introduction + Examples
0:33 Prepare a Confident Base
2:01 Observe your Audience
5:15 Unexpected Questions
7:29 Unresolved Questions
9:22 Mess-ups
9:53 Your Presence + Reactions
11:20 Power of Curiousity
14:35 More Resources
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*ABOUT:* My name is Ariel Niu, I create content on social dynamics and human interactions. I give examples on social cues and techniques, and I share ideas on how everything and everyone is connected. Since 2018, I have been practicing using my own inner state to change outer experiences and people. I love creating content about human connections, and I am grateful and excited to help those who resonate with my messages. #publicspeaking
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Wednesday Mar 20, 2024
How to be SHARP/SOFT with CONFIDENCE
Wednesday Mar 20, 2024
Wednesday Mar 20, 2024
Know the difference between being SHARP / SOFT vs being SUPERIOR / INFERIOR.
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Tips:
- Understand and accept your natural expressions
- Notice the differences between your natural expressions vs reactive expressions
- Remove reactiveness from initial sharp / soft responses
- Active Breathing, remember your Intention, eye-level Balance
- Less what you say, more how you say it (energy + delivery)
- Use ChatGPT for starting scripts
- Practice Nonchalance
- Regulate live thoughts / emotions
- Remember your live thoughts / emotions influence everything
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*ABOUT:* My name is Ariel Niu, I create content on conscious human interactions. I give examples on social cues and techniques, and I share ideas on how everything and everyone is connected. Since 2018, I have been practicing using my own inner state to change outer experiences and people. I love creating content about human connections, and I am grateful and excited to help those who resonate with my messages. #communicationskills
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Saturday Mar 09, 2024
How to be DYNAMIC when SPEAKING
Saturday Mar 09, 2024
Saturday Mar 09, 2024
When I’m in my element socially, my words and presence come naturally and attractively to both others and myself. However, I used to catch then LOSE this flow all the time. When I lose it in the moment, things become awkward in an instant. I’ve realized the trick for me to hold attention with ease and flow is to dynamically shift between certain extremes. SHARP/SOFT, FAST/SLOW, SINCERE/FUNNY, OPEN/INTIMATE, etc. ..always with active breathing.
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0:00 Introduction
0:53 Sharp/Soft
2:41 Fast/Slow
3:46 Tones/Pitches
6:09 Practice to Flow
6:42 Motion/Stillness
7:40 Emotional Dynamics
10:32 Intimacy Dynamics
11:52 Intention/Breathing/Balance
14:59 Resources
*ABOUT:* My name is Ariel Niu, I share views and guidance on human interactions through understanding our emotions, expressions, energy, and the interconnectedness between all. I love exploring human dynamics, and I am grateful to help those who resonate with my messages.
#charisma #confidence #publicspeaking #communicationtips #magnetism #selfmastery #lifehacks #confidence #socialskills #socialanxiety #niuviews
Monday Feb 26, 2024
How to be Nonchalant with Balance
Monday Feb 26, 2024
Monday Feb 26, 2024
Nonchalance as a self-mastery technique, is not about caring or not caring. It’s about feeling light and good, inside and out, as often as possible, so every interaction we face can be experienced at its highest potential, with the least amount of energy needed. Balanced nonchalance flows between soft + sharp without going to the extremes.
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*ABOUT:* My name is Ariel Niu, I create content on conscious human interactions. I give examples on social cues and techniques, and I share ideas on how everything and everyone is connected. Since 2018, I have been practicing using my own inner state to change outer experiences and people. I love creating content about human connections, and I am grateful and excited to help those who resonate with my messages.
Monday Feb 05, 2024
‘Love on the Spectrum’ reveals SOCIALIZING MATRIX
Monday Feb 05, 2024
Monday Feb 05, 2024
How can we collectively become comfortable being nonchalantly honest AND confidently kind? Piercing the social matrix starts with each of us, in knowing eye-level balance in live moments.
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ABOUT: My name is Ariel Niu, I create content on conscious human interactions. I give examples on social cues and techniques, and I share ideas on how everything and everyone is connected. Since 2018, I have been practicing using my own inner state to change outer experiences and people. I love creating content about human connections, and I am grateful and excited to help those who resonate with my messages.
#communicationskills #emotionalintelligence #relationships #lifehacks #confidence #consciousness #lifecoach #socialanxiety #popculture #niuviews
Tuesday Jan 30, 2024
How to BE INTENTIONAL with confidence
Tuesday Jan 30, 2024
Tuesday Jan 30, 2024
To be intentional = we do less and achieve more, we exude natural confidence, and every moment can be guided with ease and grace.
TIPS:
- Good intentions are balanced in Sharp / Soft:
- SHARP: clear, decisive, committed to the vision.
- SOFT: open, curious, flexible on the how.
- apply this for personal intentions + intentions during interactions with others.
- Your ultimate self (Him/Her/They) is your north star in moment-by-moment intentions.
- Ask yourself, ‘what would He/She/They do?’, How would He/She/They respond?’
- Review the root of WHY before actions.
- Energy we embody when setting intentions will manifest in the results.
- When involving others, the best intentions for all is easiest.
- Breathe, come back to the Intention, Balance (eye-level in thoughts/emotions/actions).
- Checkpoints when unexpected circumstances happen - ‘is this really what I want?’ ‘could this be happening in a better, unexpected way?’ ‘how can I flow?’ ‘should we take a break?’
- When we're honest and open = eye-level is easier, diffusion is easier. It is what it is.
Intention is 1/3 of the trifecta practice of Intention, Balancing, and Breathing. The way of actualizing all desires and resolving all conflict. Stay tuned for the next episode on Balance.
0:00 Be Him/Her/They Now
1:19 Example - Work Relationship
1:36 Imbalanced Emotions
2:14 Highest Potential Intentions
3:53 Eye-Level Outcomes
6:51 Example - Personal Relationship
7:07 Clarifying Intentions
7:57 How to Communicate Intentions
9:11 Checkpoint Reminders
10:11 Resources
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ABOUT: My name is Ariel Niu, I create content on conscious human interactions. I give examples on social cues and techniques, and I share ideas on how everything and everyone is connected. Since 2018, I have been practicing using my own inner state to change outer experiences and people. I love creating content about human connections, and I am grateful and excited to help those who resonate with my messages.
#selfmastery #emotionalintelligence #relationships #lifehacks #communicationskills #lifecoach #careeradvice #lifehacks #niuviews
Monday Jan 22, 2024
HOW TO PROGRAM YOUR MIND WITH MANTRAS
Monday Jan 22, 2024
Monday Jan 22, 2024
It's not about REPEATING, it's about FEELING. You must strategically trigger the precise thoughts/emotions of your intentions.
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What we think, feel, speak - we are and we become. It’s about thinking, feeling, and speaking like that Him/Her/They NOW.
Tips for Mantras:
- Have clear intentions for your mantras
- Keep them short + in the style you talk
- Use words that feel good to you, enjoyable to say, aligns you back to your intention
- Use active, present tense
- Make the words and sayings very personal, defined for what you’re precisely going through
- Experiment for a period, play with different words, before setting the program
My 2024 Mantras:
Intentions - Expansion, Sustainability
'I go all in and all out with what I intend (with ease and flow)'
'It’s only getting better and easier'
'I trust my flow is a go (aka glow)'
My 2023 Mantras:
Intentions - Being, Self-Actualization
'I make life work for me'
'I accept myself to advance myself'
'I trust my intuition'
0:00 Potency of Words
0:19 Programming with Mantras
1:23 2023 Mantras + Results
1:43 'I make life for me'
3:48 'I accept myself to advance myself'
4:51 'I trust my intuition'
5:41 2024 Mantras + Intentions
6:13 'I go all in and all out with what I intend'
7:21 'It's only getting better and easier'
8:17 'I trust my flow is a go'
9:15 Tips + Tricks
10:13 Exercise + Resources
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ABOUT: My name is Ariel Niu, I create content on self and social interactions. I give examples on social cues and techniques, and I share stories on how everything and everyone is connected. Since 2018, I have been practicing using my own energy to change outer experiences and people. I love creating content about human connections, and I am grateful and excited to help those who resonate with my messages.
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