How to avoid PEOPLE-PLEASING

Save your energy, smile without laughter-padding, and BE REAL.

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TIPS:

• Start with slow and soft energy
• Share only what you want to share
• Be calm and concise in honesty
• Soften honesty with gratitude
• Instead of conforming, do nothing
• Instead of conforming, get curious
• Be light and nonchalant
• Observe and refine without emotion (aka meditate and cry/vent later lol)
• Know how you ideally want to socialize (if you’re like me - you want to be able to be both chill and playful, take jokes and make jokes. Find your balance.)
• Flow with your natural expressions (sharp and/or soft)

 

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ABOUT: My name is Ariel Niu, I create content on self and social interactions. I give examples on social cues and techniques, and I share stories on how everything and everyone is connected. Since 2018, I have been practicing using my own energy to change outer experiences and people. I love creating content about human connections, and I am grateful and excited to help those who resonate with my messages.

 

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