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How to be SHARP/SOFT with CONFIDENCE

 

Know the difference between being SHARP / SOFT vs being SUPERIOR / INFERIOR.

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Tips:

- Understand and accept your natural expressions

- Notice the differences between your natural expressions vs reactive expressions

- Remove reactiveness from initial sharp / soft responses

- Active Breathing, remember your Intention, eye-level Balance

- Less what you say, more how you say it (energy + delivery)

- Use ChatGPT for starting scripts

- Practice Nonchalance

- Regulate live thoughts / emotions

- Remember your live thoughts / emotions influence everything

 

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*ABOUT:* My name is Ariel Niu, I create content on conscious human interactions. I give examples on social cues and techniques, and I share ideas on how everything and everyone is connected. Since 2018, I have been practicing using my own inner state to change outer experiences and people. I love creating content about human connections, and I am grateful and excited to help those who resonate with my messages. #communicationskills

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How to be DYNAMIC when SPEAKING

 

When I’m in my element socially, my words and presence come naturally and attractively to both others and myself. However, I used to catch then LOSE this flow all the time. When I lose it in the moment, things become awkward in an instant. I’ve realized the trick for me to hold attention with ease and flow is to dynamically shift between certain extremes. SHARP/SOFT, FAST/SLOW, SINCERE/FUNNY, OPEN/INTIMATE, etc. ..always with active breathing.

 

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0:00 Introduction

0:53 Sharp/Soft

2:41 Fast/Slow

3:46 Tones/Pitches

6:09 Practice to Flow

6:42 Motion/Stillness

7:40 Emotional Dynamics

10:32 Intimacy Dynamics

11:52 Intention/Breathing/Balance

14:59 Resources

 

*ABOUT:* My name is Ariel Niu, I share views and guidance on human interactions through understanding our emotions, expressions, energy, and the interconnectedness between all. I love exploring human dynamics, and I am grateful to help those who resonate with my messages.

 

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How to be Nonchalant with Balance

Nonchalance as a self-mastery technique, is not about caring or not caring. It’s about feeling light and good, inside and out, as often as possible, so every interaction we face can be experienced at its highest potential, with the least amount of energy needed. Balanced nonchalance flows between soft + sharp without going to the extremes.

 

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‘Love on the Spectrum’ reveals SOCIALIZING MATRIX

How can we collectively become comfortable being nonchalantly honest AND confidently kind? Piercing the social matrix starts with each of us, in knowing eye-level balance in live moments.

 

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How to BE INTENTIONAL with confidence

To be intentional = we do less and achieve more, we exude natural confidence, and every moment can be guided with ease and grace.

TIPS:

- Good intentions are balanced in Sharp / Soft:

- SHARP: clear, decisive, committed to the vision.

- SOFT: open, curious, flexible on the how.

- apply this for personal intentions + intentions during interactions with others.

- Your ultimate self (Him/Her/They) is your north star in moment-by-moment intentions.

- Ask yourself, ‘what would He/She/They do?’, How would He/She/They respond?’

- Review the root of WHY before actions.

- Energy we embody when setting intentions will manifest in the results.

- When involving others, the best intentions for all is easiest.

- Breathe, come back to the Intention, Balance (eye-level in thoughts/emotions/actions).

- Checkpoints when unexpected circumstances happen - ‘is this really what I want?’ ‘could this be happening in a better, unexpected way?’ ‘how can I flow?’ ‘should we take a break?’

- When we're honest and open = eye-level is easier, diffusion is easier. It is what it is.

 

Intention is 1/3 of the trifecta practice of Intention, Balancing, and Breathing. The way of actualizing all desires and resolving all conflict. Stay tuned for the next episode on Balance.

 

0:00 Be Him/Her/They Now

1:19 Example - Work Relationship

1:36 Imbalanced Emotions

2:14 Highest Potential Intentions

3:53 Eye-Level Outcomes

6:51 Example - Personal Relationship

7:07 Clarifying Intentions

7:57 How to Communicate Intentions

9:11 Checkpoint Reminders

10:11 Resources

 

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HOW TO PROGRAM YOUR MIND WITH MANTRAS

It's not about REPEATING, it's about FEELING. You must strategically trigger the precise thoughts/emotions of your intentions.

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What we think, feel, speak - we are and we become. It’s about thinking, feeling, and speaking like that Him/Her/They NOW.

 

Tips for Mantras:

- Have clear intentions for your mantras

- Keep them short + in the style you talk

- Use words that feel good to you, enjoyable to say, aligns you back to your intention

- Use active, present tense

- Make the words and sayings very personal, defined for what you’re precisely going through

- Experiment for a period, play with different words, before setting the program

 

My 2024 Mantras:

Intentions - Expansion, Sustainability

'I go all in and all out with what I intend (with ease and flow)'

'It’s only getting better and easier'

'I trust my flow is a go (aka glow)'

My 2023 Mantras:

Intentions - Being, Self-Actualization

'I make life work for me'

'I accept myself to advance myself'

'I trust my intuition'

 

0:00 Potency of Words

0:19 Programming with Mantras

1:23 2023 Mantras + Results

1:43 'I make life for me'

3:48 'I accept myself to advance myself'

4:51 'I trust my intuition'

5:41 2024 Mantras + Intentions

6:13 'I go all in and all out with what I intend'

7:21 'It's only getting better and easier'

8:17 'I trust my flow is a go'

9:15 Tips + Tricks

10:13 Exercise + Resources

 

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How to Speak with POTENCY + POWER

I guarantee results in days, if you use every moment in your day as practice. It's easy.

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TIPS:

• BE INTENTIONAL
• BE DEFINITIVE
• SLOW DOWN, BREATHE, PAUSE
• REDUCE FILLER WORDS/PHRASES
  • e.g. ‘like’ ‘just’ ‘so’ ‘um/uh’ ‘you know’
• LIVE ACKNOWLEDGEMENT
  • e.g. ask ‘scenario’ questions
  • e.g. address needs, traits, demographics
• REPHRASE "I" PHRASES
  • “I think this is good” 🠒 “this is good”
  • “I think we should” 🠒 “why don’t we try…”
  • “I need your help” 🠒 “I’m thankful for your support”
  • “I will make it” 🠒 “I am making it”
  • “I deserve more” 🠒 “I’m getting more”
  • “I hope you’ve been well” 🠒 “I trust you’ve been well”
  • “I hope they are…” 🠒 “I trust they are…”
  • “He should know…” 🠒 “I trust he knows...”

0:00 Be Intentional

0:36 Be Definitive

1:39 Breathe, Slow Down, Pause

2:59 Reduce Filler Words/Phrases

4:34 Live Acknowledgement

6:46 Rephrase "I" Phrases

8:29 Be Him/Her/They Now

9:28 More Resources

 

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How to avoid PEOPLE-PLEASING

Save your energy, smile without laughter-padding, and BE REAL.

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TIPS:

• Start with slow and soft energy
• Share only what you want to share
• Be calm and concise in honesty
• Soften honesty with gratitude
• Instead of conforming, do nothing
• Instead of conforming, get curious
• Be light and nonchalant
• Observe and refine without emotion (aka meditate and cry/vent later lol)
• Know how you ideally want to socialize (if you’re like me - you want to be able to be both chill and playful, take jokes and make jokes. Find your balance.)
• Flow with your natural expressions (sharp and/or soft)

 

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ABOUT: My name is Ariel Niu, I create content on self and social interactions. I give examples on social cues and techniques, and I share stories on how everything and everyone is connected. Since 2018, I have been practicing using my own energy to change outer experiences and people. I love creating content about human connections, and I am grateful and excited to help those who resonate with my messages.

 

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How to be SOFT and SHARP socially

No inferiority, no superiority (they can feel what you feel on the inside), keep it eye-level.

 

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TIPS:

• Soft and Sharp responses are only negatively experienced when imbalanced
• Imbalances = feeling INFERIOR or SUPERIOR
• INFERIORITY symptoms: people-pleasing, laughter-padding, white lies
• SUPERIORITY symptoms: reactiveness, judgement over observation, attachment
• YOUR ENERGY: what you embody inside and out - facial expressions, body language, tone, pitch, pace, words, intention, thoughts, emotions...

How to be SOFT and BALANCED:

1. Be intentional
2. Breathe
3. Be eye-level with others
4. Speak slower
5. Lift/lighten your tone
6. Ground your energy

How to be SHARP and BALANCED:

1. Be intentional
2. Breathe
3. Be eye-level with others
4. Be honest
5. Be definitive and open at the same time
6. Stay present and conscious

See my Instagram and TikTok for more examples on balanced Sharp vs Soft responses.

 

0:00 Introduction

0:35 Inferiority vs Superiority

2:39 Embodying Energy

3:45 How to be BALANCED SOFT

6:45 How to be BALANCED SHARP

11:23 Conclusion

 

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My recent experiences have been about balance, contradictions, and integration periods.

 

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ABOUT NIUVIEWS: My name is Ariel Niu, I am a creator and speaker (@niu.views). I explore human connections through self, social, and spiritual views. I share stories and examples on the connections between everyone and everything. The vision is to inspire the utility, power, and love in consciousness. We are all playing an inner game.

 

0:00 Introductions

1:11 How my journey began

3:33 My first awakening on LSD

6:33 Universal laws of Oneness

10:17 Contradicting self-love practices

12:11 Integration periods

17:16 How to set intentions

18:25 Unexpected experiences and crazy visions

20:33 Balance and breaks

21:51 Visions coming true

24:13 Living moment-by-moment

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